Contents

Introduction: Maturity Rocks!: Embracing New Truths About Aging

1. Only Grown-ups Need Apply: The Secret to Great Lovemaking

2. From God’s Love Manual: A Biblical Celebration

3. “Hear Me Roar!”: Female Sexual Changes

4. Hope for Hormone Hostages?: The Confusion of Menopausal Changes

5. Performance Power or Passionate Partner?: Male Sexual Changes

6. “You Are So Beautiful to Me”: Redeeming Body Image

7. Lost in the Labyrinth of Life: Coping with Changing Roles

8. When It Isn’t Working: Male and Female Sexual Challenges

9. Loving Through the Obstacles: Dealing with Disease and Disability

10. Medication Busters and Boosters: How Drugs Affect Sex

11. The Viagra Years: Blessing or Curse?

12. Challenges and Choices: Sexual Desire and Frequency

13. “Why Didn’t I Say That?”: Choosing to Communicate Sexually

14. From Here to Eternity: Understanding the Lovemaking Cycle

15. Vive la Différence: Valuing Incompatibility

16. Jump-Starting Your Love Life: The Use of Sexual Aphrodisiacs

17. Magic Fingers: Sensuous Massage and Mutual Pleasuring

18. Ooh La La!: Creative Intercourse and Lovemaking

19. God’s Sexual Emergency Room: Healing Relational Wounds

20. Old Dogs Learn More Tricks: Making Choices for Passionate Change

Notes and Resources

Index

Acknowledgments

About the Authors