CONTENTS

Preface

1. Is This Book for Me?

2. Why All the Confusion?

A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE

3. Sexuality Is a Gift from God!

4. What the Bible Says About Our Sexuality

THE PHYSICAL DIMENSION

5. Our Bodies

6. Discovering and Sharing Our Bodies

7. How Our Bodies Work

8. Our Bodies’ Sexual Response

THE TOTAL EXPERIENCE

9. Getting Interested

10. Having Fun

11. Initiating

12. Meshing Your Worlds

13. Pleasuring

14. Special Treats That Add Pleasure

15. Stimulating

16. By Invitation Only

17. Letting Go

18. Affirmation Time

19. Cleaning Up

WHEN SEX ISN’T WORKING

20. Why Sexual Problems?

21. Differing Sexual Needs

22. Never Enough Time

23. You Want to Do What?

24. I Don’t Love Him Anymore

25. Birth Control Gets in the Way

26. I’m Not Interested

27. Not Enough When You Need It: Erectile Dysfunction

28. Too Soon, Too Fast: Premature Ejaculation

29. Less Arousal or No Release: Some Women’s Frustrations

30. Pain Reduces Pleasure

31. Pornography and the Internet

ENHANCING THE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE

32. Inviting God into the Bedroom

33. Build Sexual Passion and Intimacy

34. A Plan for Change

35. Going for Help

36. Questions and Answers

37. Final Words

Sexual Enhancement Exercises

Illustrations

Notes

References

Index