Cover 1
Title Page 3
Copyright Page 4
Dedication 5
1. You Can Survive This Affair 9
2. It Could Never Happen to Me! 13
3. How Do Affairs Usually Begin? 28
4. How Do Affairs Usually End? 38
5. How Should Affairs End? 51
6. What to Do if the Unfaithful Spouse Continues to Contact the Lover 68
7. The First Steps on the Road to Marital Recovery 83
8. Avoid Withdrawals, Part I: Overcome Love Busters 92
9. Avoid Withdrawals, Part II: Overcome Dishonesty 106
10. Avoid Withdrawals, Part III: Overcome Independent Behavior 119
11. Make Deposits, Part I: Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs 135
12. Make Deposits, Part II: Take Time for Undivided Attention 147
13. Make Deposits, Part III: Protect Your Love Bank from Outside Threats 159
14. Managing Resentment and Restoring Trust 167
15. Sustaining Romantic Love 177
Appendices 189
A. The Most Important Emotional Needs 190
B. Emotional Needs Questionnaire 197
C. Love Busters Questionnaire 209
D. Memorandum of Agreement 216
About the Authors 221
Other Books by Willard F. Harley, Jr. 222
Back Ads 223
Back Cover 226