Contents

Cover    1

Title Page    2

Copyright Page    3

Endorsements    4

Dedication    5

Acknowledgments    9

1. The Number One Cause of Divorce    11

2. People Stay in Love in Predictable Ways    27

Part 1:  Friend    39

3. No Wonder You Don’t Love Each Other    41

4. The Most Overlooked Characteristic of Marriage    53

5. Give Thanks and Play    65

6. My Best Friend, Not My Only Friend    79

Part 2:  Partner    93

7. Marry a Partner, Not a Child    95

8. How I Predict Divorce Based on the Wedding Cake    109

9. Why Nobel Peace Prize Winners Get Divorced    123

10. How to Make Her Dreams Come True    137

Part 3:  Lover    151

11. The Appeal of Easy Sex    153

12. Three Types of Married Sex    165

13. How to Have Great Sex    177

14. The Twenty-Four-Hour Rule (and Other Solutions to Common Sex Problems)    189

Conclusion: How to Save Your Marriage    201

Afterword    213

About the Author    219

Back Ad    221

Back Cover    222