TABLE OF CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Introduction
How to Use This Book

1 What Are We Aiming For?
2 Why Do We Get in Trouble?
3 Definitions and Self-Awareness
4 To Talk or Not to Talk
5 What Do You Want?
6 How to Talk
7 Tools and Hands-On Exercises
8 Safer Sex
9 Difficult Conversations
10 Specific Scenarios
11 Negotiation and Kink
12 Nurturing

Odds and Ends: Resources
Glossary
About the Author