CONTENTS

1 IS IT ME, OR IS IT YOU MAKING ME THINK IT’S ME?
Portrait of a Gaslighter

2 LOVE-BOMBED, HOOVERED, DEVALUED, AND DISCARDED
Gaslighting in Intimate Relationships

3 PASSIONATE, CONFIDENT—AND OUT FOR CONTROL
How to Avoid Falling for a Gaslighter in the First Place

4 SABOTEURS, HARASSERS, OFF-LOADERS, AND THUNDER STEALERS
Gaslighters in the Workplace

5 YOU, TOO
Sexual Harassment, Violence, Domestic Abuse, and Gaslighters

6 MAD FOR POWER
Gaslighters in Politics, Society, and Social Media

7 BEWARE THE MAN BEHIND THE CURTAIN
False Messiahs, Extremist Groups, Closed Communities, Cults, and Gaslighting

8 THE ONES WHO REALLY GET UNDER YOUR SKIN
Gaslighters in Your Family

9 WITH FRENEMIES LIKE THESE
Gaslighting in Friendships

10 YOUR EX, YOUR KIDS, YOUR EX’S NEW SPOUSE, YOUR NEW SPOUSE’S EX
Gaslighting in Divorce and Coparenting

11 WHO, ME?
What to Do When You Are the Gaslighter

12 GETTING FREE
Counseling and Other Ways to Get Help

Acknowledgments

About the Author

Also By Stephanie Moulton Sarkis, Phd