Contents

PART ONE
Help! I Can’t Get Close to My Husband

Chapter 1: He Automatically Avoids Intimacy

Chapter 2: Yes, He Can Change

PART TWO
Seven Steps to a New Husband

Step One
I Need a Team

Chapter 3: Your Mission Impossible Team

Step Two
This Is Exactly the Kind of Husband I Need You to Be

Chapter 4: The Man Who Knew Too Little

Chapter 5: God Says: Be a Godly Man

Chapter 6: God Says: Be a Lover

Chapter 7: God Says: Be a Romancer and a Leader

Step Three
Honey, I Need to Forgive You

Chapter 8: Smiling on the Outside, Dying on the Inside

Chapter 9: Speak the Truth in Love

Chapter 10: Yeah, I’m Talking to You

Step Four
I Need to Know Exactly How I Am Killing Our Intimacy

Chapter 11: What Do I Do That Shuts You Up?

Step Five
This Is Exactly the Kind of Wife I Need to Be

Chapter 12: God Says: Be Submissive to Your Husband

Chapter 13: God Says: Be Worthy of Respect

Chapter 14: God Says: Respect Your Husband

Step Six
I Need Your Help to Heal From My Past Pain

Chapter 15: How to Sneak Inside Your Husband

Chapter 16: From Superficial to Super Husband

Step Seven
I Need to Get Tough and Rattle Your Cage

Chapter 17: If He Stays Clammed Up, It’s Time to Confront

PART THREE
What if God Wants Me to Stay in a Lonely Marriage?

Chapter 18: Living With a Man Who Won’t Change

Resources