Contents

List of Illustrations

Foreword, by Barbara Carrellas

Introduction

Part One: The Fundamentals: Key Concepts and Attitudes

Chapter One: Honor Each Other

Chapter Two: Know the Power That Dwells in Your Pelvic Floor

Chapter Three: Collaborate and Take Each Other to New Heights

Chapter Four: Take Your Time

Chapter Five: Build Excitement and Prolong Arousal

Chapter Six: Be Present

Chapter Seven: Shed Your Inhibitions

Chapter Eight: Learn to Feel Energy: It’s Easier Than You Think

Part Two: Self-Pleasuring

Chapter Nine: Experiment with Your Breath

Chapter Ten: Pleasure Yourself in Front of Your Partner

Chapter Eleven: Use a Vibrator: It’s More Than Just a Sex Toy

Chapter Twelve: Fantasize Freely

Chapter Thirteen: Change Your Position to Change Your Experience

Part Three: Beyond Words: Silent Ways to Create
Intimacy and Reverence

Chapter Fourteen: Gaze into Each Other’s Eyes

Chapter Fifteen: Keep in Touch

Chapter Sixteen: Breathe Together

Chapter Seventeen: Connect: Hands to Heart

Chapter Eighteen: Bow to Each Other

Chapter Nineteen: Pay Attention

Part Four: Kissing

Chapter Twenty: Kiss for Ten Minutes

Chapter Twenty-one: Give and Receive Kisses

Chapter Twenty-two: Exchange Breath

Chapter Twenty-Three: Play with Cupid’s Bow

Chapter Twenty-four: Exchange Essences

Part Five: Awakening the Senses

Chapter Twenty-five: Smell: The Most Primal Sense

Chapter Twenty-six: Taste: Where Our Sensory Experience of the World Begins

Chapter Twenty-seven: Sight: The Power of the Erotic Gaze

Chapter Twenty-eight: Touch: Open Up to New Sensations

Chapter Twenty-nine: Hearing: Alter Your Consciousness with Sound

Chapter Thirty: The Full Spectrum: Engage All the Senses in Lovemaking

Part Six: Erotic Trigger Points

Chapter Thirty-one: Nape of the Neck

Chapter Thirty-two: Armpits

Chapter Thirty-three: Inside of the Elbow

Chapter Thirty-four: Achilles Tendon

Chapter Thirty-five: Coccyx

Chapter Thirty-six: Nipples

Chapter Thirty-seven: Above the Pubic Bone

Chapter Thirty-eight: Perineum

Chapter Thirty-nine: Prostate Gland

Chapter Forty: G-spot

Part Seven: Enhancing Oral Sex

Chapter Forty-one: Use the Aural to Enhance the Oral

Chapter Forty-two: Oral G-spot

Chapter Forty-three: Become a Human Vibrator

Chapter Forty-four: Pleasure Your Partner Inside and Out

Chapter Forty-five: Imagine Your Way to a New Dimension

Part Eight: Sex Positions: A Tantric Twist

Chapter Forty-six: Pull Yourselves Together: Yab Yum

Chapter forty-seven: Play with Polarities: Kali Asana

Chapter Forty-eight: An Old Standard Made New: Missionary with Enhancements

Chapter Forty-nine: Doggy Style and Some New Tricks

Part Nine: Expanding Orgasmic Response

Chapter Fifty: Simply Give and Receive

Chapter Fifty-one: Ride the Wave .

Chapter Fifty-two: Anal Sex for Energy Activation

Chapter Fifty-three: Break Your Patterns to Discover New Sensations

Chapter Fifty-four: Breathing as an Alchemical Process

Afterword

Acknowledgments

Notes

Glossary

Bibliography